
You've Been A Man Today
2025
When something’s difficult, or can’t be had,
We crave and cry for it all day like mad.
Forbid a thing, we pine for it all night,
Press fast upon us and we take to flight.
The Canterbury Tales
You’ve Been A Man Today is the title of an ongoing series of sixteen self-portrait drawings that confront ideas of masculinity. the inherited complexities of body image and gender identity. These drawings aim to exonerate the self from the limitations, contradictions and irrationality of manliness as we know and understand it in the west.
Humorous and humiliating, sardonic, discomfiting, awkward, innocuous and sad. Blemished, shapeless pants accentuate the nakedness of this this pant-clad Pierrot. We observe him learn, examine, indludge, doubt and disclaim his manliness, of all that it offers, all that it denies. Each drawing is characterised by a particular pose or gesture which both accentuates and destabilises his gender. Some of the self-portraits contain an abnormality, a divergent feature or aspect that unsettles the otherwise faithful representation: ill-proportioned limbs and distorted facial features typify the uneasiness with which this figure regards himself.
You've Been A Man Today was initiated through the Home Grown Window Residency programme at Home Grown Window Residency: Vincent Stokes - Stryx Birmingham December 2024 - April 2025








All works were completed in 2025 and are pencil on paper, measuring approx 22cm x 15.5cm unframed.
